His Dating Profile is STILL Up

Written by Lucia.


Dear Lucia,

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I met him online. My concern is that his profile is still up, like he's still single.  Should I be concerned about this?

I have asked him. He said he just wants to get to know people all over the world. His career goal is to be a movie star, therefore, it's necessary to get his name out there.

I know he doesn't talk to anyone over the phone except me, some close friends and family. I know this because his phone bill is under my name, but he pays for it. Any suggestions? Alison W.

Dear Alison,

He's online because his career goal is to be a movie star? LMAO! I don't mean to laugh, but that's the best excuse I've heard yet from someone that wants to keep their profile up, even though they have a steady partner. Puh-leese.

You say you have access to his phone bill, but how do you know he doesn't have another phone, maybe under someone else's name? Why is the phone in your name?  He could also be using skype, facetime, whats app or God knows what else.

Tell him you're putting your profile back online and when he asks why, nonchalantly say it's because you want to "get to know people all over the world." If that doesn't get him to take his profile down, leave. He's obviously not ready to be monogamous.

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