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Have you ever wondered:

How can I get him/her back?

Does no contact really work?

Should I break up with him/her?

Is he/she the one?

How can I get my guy/girl to…?

Why didn’t he/she call?

When should I have sex with him/her?

Is he/she cheating?

Is he/she interested?

Why did he/she disappear?

Why did he sleep with me and then pull away?

Why won’t he/she commit?

What does he/she want in bed?

Is he/she playing games?

Why am I getting mixed signals?

How can I avoid players/pick-up artists?

How do I meet more men/women?

Whatever your dating or relationship issue is, Lucia can help!   Book a session today for private phone/skype coaching. 

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Here’s what men and women from around the world are saying about Lucia:

I know the crowds can be skeptical of reviews, however, if there is one you should not dismiss it is this one. Yes, I had gone through a devastating breakup with my girlfriend, and had found Lucia in a video clip discussing a few key points regarding comments and behavior of a significant other; and what those comments and behavior really meant, and how to appropriately deal with them. I could not believe what I was hearing! After months of twice weekly relationship counseling and therapy with a Psychologist and Psychotherapist the words that Lucia spoke answered so much of what I was going through, and experiencing, and had not heard from my counseling sessions. I was shocked! Suffice it to say I began winding down those sessions, and began my relationship work with Lucia. After a few short weeks and months I felt I had answers and understanding that had previously eluded me. I have since reconciled my relationship, and have clarity where before this did not exist. Lucia is a gifted soul with integrity, and a level of genuine care that is rare. If you will be honest with yourself, and with her, you will discover things you never knew, about your relationship and yourself.  Private Client

Everything you told me to do worked. Your counsel was worth every penny.  Private Client

I was initially drawn to your down to earth approach, common sense and at times great humor too. You really are very, very good at your job - something I am sure you get told daily. Our one on one coaching session helped me a lot. Didn’t necessarily make things better, but it went some way towards giving me greater clarity, which I needed. I have a lot of work to do on myself. I guess I always knew that, but thank you all the same for helping me illuminate the obvious – Private client

I just wanted to thank you for all your help with me getting my ex back. As I’m sure you know this was highly emotional. I pretty much did 5 months no contact with once answering this is a lot to think about, 3.5 months in and of course she responded again.  All of your advice was spot on and in particular was the 45-60 days you could almost bank on it. Once again I can’t thank you enough. You really change lives. - Private Client

I cannot express to you what a relief and accomplishment it is to be in control of my emotions and know what kind of mental strength I am capable of.  No one could ever buy me this as a gift for Christmas, but they are worth more than a pot of gold.  I wanted to thank you for your guidance and coaching sessions.  They brought me the greatest gift of all. – Private Client

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for getting me through the worst part of my life.  I didn't realize I gave my partner no space and was smothering her but I did do anything and everything for her.  I was very bad for a few weeks, couldn't eat.  Did no contact.  She contacted me.  I’ve now found the strength to be even stronger and I don't want her back anymore.  I never taught I'd snap out of it.  I hope all your dreams come true.  You’re an inspiration.  Now I think about every little thing I do before I rush into anything and I'm 38. - Anonymous

Thank you so much.  You’re an amazing person with a good heart.  I really think that someone sent you on this earth to cure suffering.  Cristina D.

You seem to be the only one who has a clue what you’re talking about.  I’m done with other dating experts forever.   When they pop up on YouTube and I’m not fast enough to skip it immediately, I find it dumb as sh*t and roll my eyes  Larissa R.

I learned to value myself more through you  Fatima M.

I did everything you said and it worked.  Thank you Stuart F.

Everything I thought I knew about love was wrong.  I’m so thankful to have found you  Sofia W.

I have learnt and discovered how much power I have been giving to undeserving people for free Lucy L.

You’re an eye opener! Thanking God for you  Lola W.

You are simply the best! The strongest and the most inspiring. You encourage people to be strong and to remember their worth. Thanks for giving strength...and courage. Ifeoma O.

I’m in a very happy relationship with a new man who treats me like a queen. If I hadn’t followed your advice, I would have ended up being where I was like a doormat. Your no contact methods allowed me to respect and learn to love myself again. Mimi

I was completely blown away by your insights and understanding of relationships. You’re unlike any dating coach I’ve ever come across. Hayden L.

You are the only person who has ever understood all the aspects. I kick myself I didn’t get with you earlier. These male coaches out there suggest that men don’t take advice from women. It’s a foolish position to take. Maybe they should not take it from a typical woman, but it’s a whole different game with your experience as both coach and frankly a female and a girlfriend having been through breakups. Who else can better say what it takes to reignite a spark? - Don. P

There I was after the worst breakup of my life.  Couldn’t get out of bed, crying myself to sleep, crying every time I was alone.  I found Lucia’s channel and started watching/learning.  This is not made up and I’m the last person that would EVER seek advice outside my own head.  I can say that Lucia is a bright light here to guide us through the darkest times.  When I first started watching I had serious doubts and didn’t believe what she was saying would work, but I received a call from my ex on day 59 and I chose not to answer.  Then I received another call the next day (day 60) and didn’t answer.  Lucia was spot on with the 45-60 days.  Her advice on using the law of attraction and pretty much all of her videos put me on the path to pull myself out of the darkness and vibrate on the highest frequency I’ve been on my entire life.  I spoke to her on the phone and I can say that she doesn’t give neutral advice and this isn’t about selling a book or making money, she cares because she’s been there.  She’s somehow figured out the path you need to take, so listen to her and have faith.  Faith = believing in something that hasn’t happened yet or something you can’t yet see.  My relationship was only 5 months and my ex called just like Lucia said she would.  I found myself during this period and realized that I’m worth much more than I ever imagined and I don’t want my ex in my life anymore, even though I had the choice to have her back.  I now have the power, but I realized at some point thanks to Lucia, that I had the power this whole time and couldn’t see it.  She is an angel of light here to guide you out of darkness and you are not alone with the way you’re feeling.  The fact this happened to you is a blessing and an opportunity to be the best person you can be. Lucia’s advice is gold, be strong, have faith and listen to her - J.M.

You saved my butt and helped me have the strength to preserve my dignity Lucia. Such great advice. He contacted me basically right at 60 days after I had already ignored him twice. You were so freaking right... and your snippets about having faith were SO helpful. Who knows what the future holds, but at the very least, I'm SO happy I didn't reach out. I must have listened to your "30 day no contact rule is BS" video literally like 25 times to get through it.  - Jessica.A

One of the guides I stupidly purchased (but quickly got a refund for) suggested texting after 21 days. To make matters worse, that so called "coach" was suggesting a bunch of sexual texts to get your exes attention. Essentially I was being told that whoring myself out was going to re-attract my ex. I'm sure that works in the sense that they will assume you want to hook up, but not for anything substantial. Btw, any coach that feels the need to shove a "guide" down your throat isn't all that great. That's why Lucia is one of the best coaches out there. She tells it as it is in her videos. - Anonymous

Lucia is tough love but...had I heard this, I would have avoided making crucial mistakes that neither Brad, Craig or Corey warned about. - Alain P.

Lucia's advice is the only one I go with anymore. - Laura T.

You're honestly the best.- Emily B.

You dismantle a lot of bullshit about the typical dating advice - contacting an ex after no contact.- Olga T.

Your knowledge, humor and delivery of advice is profound! - Eilene. M

I may not 100% agree with every point you make but I certainly think you've got the most integrity out of any YouTube dating coach - Corey F.

I watched a ton of videos and read a ton of articles, but I think your videos are the only thing that has really clicked and made me feel empowered.  Thank you! - Emily S.

I love you Lucia!  U give the best advice. - Charmain E.

Lucia I love you! You are so generous and geniuine!!! All your advice helps me so much. It is not an accident that your name means "Graceful Light" because you shed so much light on murky subjects. And I definitely am winning by being graceful and by not doing anything other than focusing on my integrity and happiness. - Emma V

I consulted a psychiatrist on an issue I had already asked Lucia about. He gave me the same advice! - L. Davis

You have keen insight into relationships. You also have a fantastic communication style that really answers people's questions.  Truly a dating expert. - Seth

Nice to see a woman giving men decent advice. - Guy

Love all your advice, it’s golden. - Allegra

I am so happy you are here to help us all with relationships. - Karen

I enjoy how you're a straight shooter and break away from societal standards and clichés. - Jackie

What I find refreshing is your way of re-framing traditional ideas about relationships.  You do it positively and with humor, which is so often missing from so-called therapeutic interactions. - Tony, PhD

You’re a woman who actually knows what time it is when it comes to relationships. - D.T.

I wish I could give you a bear hug. By reading your advice columns, going through your recommended reading and following your advice – I am a very happy woman today. - Cobie

Your advice made me feel much better. Thank you for helping people. You really do make an impact and your words are very wise. Fabiola

Thanks for explaining something (why women date jerks) that has been making me crazy for years.  This wasn't even dissected this well in psych class! Eclectic Enigma

This year, I have many Valentines, thanks to Lucia.  Drae

"Wow.  Your advice is so to the point that it hurts." Anonymous

You are the L.A. version of Carrie Bradshaw. RK

Thanks, Lucia.  You really helped me out.  I agree with EVERYTHING.  I wish I had been more careful, but I will bounce back and am trying to just look forward now. L.S.

You're absolutely right, I will take your great advice.  Your answer now that you have said it seems so simple, why couldn’t I figure this out!  I love your column and your to the point, no-nonsense advice.  You’re the best! -Lani

Thanks for the advice.  Next time I meet a great guy I'm going to enter it with grace and class. -Jessica

You're right about everything…I haven't spoken to the schmuck again since the hang-up. -Jamie

I can honestly say that I am so happy with him now. I backed off like you said to, and things are great!  Keep up the good work -Stephani

This has been my test of a good lover for years (kissing). I've told a million friends about it too, most of whom didn't believe me. Nice to have some confirmation. -Scott

I really feel what you are saying. The art analogy is great and makes perfect sense! I've never looked at it that way. You've confirmed my outlook on dating in general. Thanx! -Oni

You don’t know how much having your perspective is appreciated. -Lina

I may be young, but wish I had someone like you to walk me through my relationship screw ups a lot of people could use advice from people like u keep on kicking ass doing what you do… just wanted to let u know you’ve got a fan for life -Courtney

Do I love you or what my friend, Lucia? How many times you saved me from this kind of a situation! NEVER AGAIN! Been through enough drama to know I no longer wish to go there! -Aggie

You bless me always with your eloquent advice. I would love to read your column in the LA-Times or a nation wide newspaper for the people to discover your qualities and intellect. Indeed you are special. -Frank C. 

Thank you for being straightforward and honest with me. You are so right. Thank goodness for women like you. -Melanie

I LOVE the way you teach women to like and respect themselves when it comes to dealing with men -- no games and no bullshit - and that's very challenging these days. -Dee

Thanks so much for your help! It may be the best advice I've had in a long time! -Roland

Wow that is a different spin than I haven't heard before. Thank you soooooo much. -JT

None more true words have been spoken. -Tifffany

Your answers are first class. -Pasqual B.

Lucia, you are truly an expert! Amen to that! -Earl Stevens

Out of all the advice that I’ve heard today, you made me feel a lot better. I’m out of my slump now. -K.W.

Thank God we have someone like you to shed light on such an awkward topic for most. -Jordan

“Fear and love cannot co-exist.”  Very impressive. Thank you for this. Beautifully put, Lucia. -Nils 

Bless you in your wisdom. Your advice is precious to me and I hear what I am really supposed to hear from it. -Tammy

Boy, this is SOOOOOO TRUUUUUEEEEE??? -Marna

Good stuff Lucia.....seriously. You are right on target. -Mike U.

Amazing advice. You're so smart. -Ula

Your response hit it right on the head (as usual). -Roland

You are amazing and I have total respect for the work you do. -Lynne

Keep doing what you're doing. You're a positive advocate for women who wish to be the same. -Stephen

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