Dear Lucia,
When you first meet a guy, do you find his initial shyness/nervousness endearing or a turn off? Peter P.
Dear Peter,
Initial shyness/nervousness is not a turn off. It tells me he's being real, and he's probably not a player. If someone is too smooth and confident – that's a turn off! However, eventually the shyness/nervousness needs to go, otherwise it becomes annoying.
