Dear Lucia,
I met a very cool guy recently. He likes me too because I'm kind of beautiful. However, he's got a girlfriend for about 2 or 3 years. They're having some problems now but they're still together. I want to win his heart and steal him away from his girlfriend. Is there any way to have his love? Anonymous
Dear Anonymous,
So, let’s say you’ve had a boyfriend for 2 or 3 years. You’re still together despite having some problems. Then a girl that’s “kind of beautiful” (whatever that means) comes along and wants to take him away from you. How would you feel? Should she go for it?
I believe a relationship between two people, whether they are married or not, is a sacred place. Relationships can be difficult enough as it is, without third parties interfering, trying to tear them apart. Besides, if it was possible to “win his heart” while he was involved with someone else, you would always be worried that another woman may come along and do the same thing. If he was willing to go once, who’s to say he’s not willing to go twice?
For the moment, this man is off limits. If they break up and he is still interested in pursing something with you at that time, fine. However, if you are going to try to lure him away while he is with someone else, just remember: What goes around, comes around.
