Hi Lucia,

I love dating or seeing older women. I love the way they handle themselves and look. 21 year olds are fun but it gets old. An active, older woman who likes to go out and can turn heads with a great cocktail dress and heels is the most attractive thing I can think of.

I’d like to know why older women always ask why I like them and how come I am not "into" younger girls. Are all older women this insecure about this? Brian

 

Hi Brian,

Luckily, not all older women are insecure about the age factor. Most know that they are the total package and have more to offer than younger women, because they’ve had more time to get their act together.

You may be meeting women who are recently divorced and back on the dating scene or who have always dated older men. The concept of a guy preferring an older woman is still new to some people.

Tell them the same things you’ve told me in this email and that should help appease their concerns.