inlove

Dear Lucia,

It's been 4 months and I think I'm in love. She's taking it slow but she cares a lot (I know). Not sure how to approach this. Marq Q.

 

Dear Marq,

Why can't people just enjoy the moment, the situation, the relationship without having to worry about the "approach"? It's only 4 months. While that may seem like a long time to you, in the grand scheme of things, it's not very long at all. The fact that you say you "think" you're in love, tells me you're not. If you were, you'd know it. You may be on your way, but love is respect and admiration. It takes more than 4 months to fall in love with someone. Calm down and see what develops.