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Hi Lucia, I'm 25 years of age. There is a pretty gal that I work with and I am very attracted to her. Occasionally she and I have small talk. I wish I had the courage to eventually ask her out, but I'm too shy. What should I do? Kenny Hi Kenny, Before asking her out, ask yourself if things would be awkward if you dated and things didn't work out. No one…

Hi Lucia, Tell me what’s wrong with me. I am always a good friend to a woman, but when I start loving her things always go wrong!! Mostly I am too honest and direct or too intense but what is the problem about that? The other thing is I seem to always attract jealous and insecure women. Is that the consequence of being too honest and direct? I warn women…

Hi Lucia, I see this woman almost everyday at the gym and we constantly exchange looks throughout the 1.5 hours we're there. However, it’s like high school where if I catch her, she’ll look away quickly or if she knows I’m looking, she’ll do something sexy in my direction!!!! I finally found the courage to greet her and ask for her name (outside of the gym…

Dear Lucia, If a man is not satisfied with the sex life with his wife, then should he go for an extra marital affair with or without love? My wife is very cold and I have tried a lot to make her hot. She also doesn't control her figure. Rick Dear Rick, I don’t usually answer questions from married people; however, I know there are guys who are currently…

Hi Lucia, My girlfriend and I are both 21. We are close to each other, more on the physical side, but it is limited to phone sex. She really likes it when I talk dirty on the phone at night and she masturbates to that. I'm pretty sure that during that time she really wants me in her bed to do all the things I say to her, but when I ask her to have actual…

Dear Lucia, I am involved with a woman who blows up and nitpicks at me about everything. She does not want me to touch her - no sex, kissing, hugging or let alone sleeping in the same bed. She tells me that she loves me but I don’t know what to do when she is like this. She beats down my confidence. It feels like I am walking on egg shells. Joe Dear Joe,…

There is a common mistake most people make when they first hear back from their ex, which will delay the time it takes for the ex to come back. In this video, I reveal what it is and what you should do instead.

When you finally hear from your ex, should you respond? Are there times when you shouldn't answer your ex's text or call? In this video, I explain in detail which communication you should respond to and which you should ignore.

If you're trying to get your ex back using no contact and are starting to lose hope that you'll ever hear from them, this video will be inspiring. In this video, I tell the stories of 2 different women who both heard from their ex after 3 months of using the no contact rule.

Most people find no contact difficult, if not impossible to do. However, for me, it's the easiest thing in the world. In this video, I talk about my dating experiences and why I have no problem doing the no contact rule.

If you're dating someone under the age of 25, you've probably already found out it has its own set of unique challenges. People that age are fickle and flaky. In this video, I explain how to approach dating someone under 25 so that you'll have the best chance at making it work.

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you may not know you're breaking it by talking to your ex's friends are family about the breakup. In this video, I reveal what to say, and more importantly, what not to say, when you run into or are in contact with an ex's family/friends.

If you've been doing no contact and you feel that you're at the breaking point and you want to reach out to your ex, listen to this video first. In this video, I read a success story from someone who didn't believe they would hear from their ex but eventually, their ex called.

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, impatience is not your friend. Your ex didn't decide to break up with you overnight, so they're not going to decide to get back with you overnight either. In this video, I explain why you must be prepared for many months to go by before you hear from your ex or before you get back together.

If you’re having a hard time letting go of your ex, it’s probably because you are looking at the situation from a certain point of view. In this video, I explain what that point of view is and how you should be looking at your relationship instead.