Hi Lucia,
I’m writing in response to your article about “Why Guys Don’t Call”.
Guys don't call because it is almost a weird turn off to a girl if you do call exactly as you say you will. A lot of ladies interpret a guy who seems to be able to call regularly and always on time as a loser who probably has nothing better to do than to call THEM, the ONLY woman in his life. Women love it when a man doesn’t call, they start thinking "Oh no maybe he is with another woman. What is stopping him from calling me? etc.."
Then the competitive edge and insecurity kicks in and she starts thinking "What can I do to get him?" or “Why does someone or something else have his attention and not me....” then the whole obsession begins! Adam
Hi Adam,
Unfortunately, I have to agree with you for the most part, but I would like to make one observation. You used the words “girl, ladies and women”. These three terms are not interchangeable. A “girl” will see a guy that’s reliable as a “loser” but a “woman” will not put up with a man who isn’t reliable.
Men have to decide whether they are looking for a girl or are ready for a woman. If you call when you say you will and the female is turned off, then you know you are dealing with a girl. If you don’t call when you say you will and the female calls you on it, then you know you are dealing with a woman. The choice is yours.
